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Undiplomatic

How My Attitude Created the Best Kind of Trouble

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Without credentials or connections, community college student and advocate Deesha Dyer navigated her imposter syndrome, landing one of the most exclusive positions in the White House. Michelle Obama calls Undiplomatic “smart, funny, and endlessly inspirational.”


From the most unlikely person to end up as a senior official to President Barack Obama and First Lady Michelle Obama comes a candid, incredible, and inspiring story. Moved by the election of the country’s first Black president, Deesha Dyer applied for a White House internship in 2009 as a thirty-one-year-old part-time community college student, taking a leap that carried her into a permanent full-time position, followed by three promotions landing her at the epicenter of politics.
In spite of the little voice in her head telling her she didn’t deserve to be there, Deesha thrived and rose to the highly coveted role of White House social secretary, giving her a front-row seat to defining moments in history while curating some of the flyest parties 1600 Pennsylvania has ever seen. Yet, with humor and realness, she peels back the curtain, revealing the hard truth about why she spent years trying to hide behind it. Undiplomatic is a deeply personal narrative about combating self-doubt while being on top of the world. Deesha reflects on how imposter syndrome threatened her self-esteem, proven aptitude, and survival until she realized that it was neither her fault nor her responsibility. 
In this vivid portrayal from a true “around the way girl” on the personal impact of the Obama presidency, Deesha shares her road map from imposter to impact. In Undiplomatic, she invites you on a journey of self-discovery where she overcame doubt, unearthed true love for herself, and learned that your unique worth is not something to be earned, but something inherently deserved. Uplifting, funny, and sincere, Deesha’s story shows you about authenticity at all costs, and the joy and freedom that awaits on the other side.
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      April 1, 2024
      Workaday politics meets interpersonal dynamics in this report from the White House trenches. In 2009, with a "r�sum� full of unexpected detours," and somewhat older than her peers, Dyer won an internship with the Obama administration. She excelled, so much so that she was invited to return as a full-time employee, eventually becoming social secretary. Six years in, she writes, she had moved from newbie to insider with a good amount of influence, with access to some very powerful people. In her account of her impressive ascent, there's a bit too much mundane background ("As I was applying for apartments...I found out that I had bad credit from defaulting on student loans and multiple unpaid credit cards") and some clunky bits ("I felt my cheeks smile at the thought that I'd just talked to the White House"). However, where Dyer's account gains traction is when she speaks to the larger issue of women--and particularly Black women--being undervalued, dismissed, and mansplained at every turn. Coupled with the author's suffering from imposter syndrome, which "will always show up on time for your accomplishments," this prompts a trenchant denunciation of a system that is a bastion of white privilege in which Dyer was forced to process endless microaggressions and prejudices. "Rarely were my conversations about the matter at hand," she writes; "instead they involved someone's feelings about me." She stuck it out, only to find that once she left the White House and was back on the job market, it was all back to square one: the assumptions of others and that impostor syndrome working at full speed, which leads her to a welcome closing bit of advice and demand for personal justice: "We have to show others how to treat us." A revealing look inside the executive branch and its entrenched culture.

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